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Your first year
What to expect if you decide to join Gilbert Inglefield Lodge, from the first chat to becoming a Master Mason
Most people who join us say the hardest part was not knowing what to expect. This page sets it out plainly: the steps, the time it takes and what to wear. There is no obligation at any stage, and you can ask us anything.
From first chat to initiation
- A chat over a coffee or a beer. One or two members meet you somewhere informal. It is a conversation, not an interview: we want to hear what interests you, and you can ask us anything. Your partner is welcome to come along.
- Meet more of us. We invite you to one of our social events, so you can meet more members in a relaxed setting. There is no formal interview: this is where we get to know each other and answer any remaining questions.
- Proposal and ballot. Two members propose and second you, and the Lodge votes on your application at one of its meetings.
- Your initiation. You are initiated at one of our six Lodge meetings.
- Passing and Raising. Two further ceremonies follow, after which you are a Master Mason and a full member of the Lodge.
Your first evening
You will be asked to arrive at about 5pm. Your proposer meets you and stays with you throughout, so you are never left on your own.
The ceremony is serious, but friendly. Nothing in it will embarrass you or conflict with your religious, civil or moral duties. You do not need to learn anything beforehand.
Afterwards everyone dines together at the “festive board”. It is a relaxed, sociable meal, and the Lodge will drink a toast to you as its newest member. Most evenings finish at about 10pm, although many of us stay on for a drink afterwards.
Your mentor
Every new member has a mentor: an experienced member who explains each step, answers your questions and helps you settle in. You will never be expected to work things out on your own.
How much time it takes
| What | How often | Time |
|---|---|---|
| Lodge meetings | 6 a year: the first Tuesday of February, March, April, May, October and December | About 5 hours, including dinner |
| Lodge of Instruction | Optional practice evenings on the Tuesday after each Lodge meeting (6 a year) | About 2 hours |
| Learning at home | A few short passages before your second and third ceremonies | A little each week, with plenty of help |
| Social events and charity | Throughout the year | As much or as little as you like |
What to wear
For meetings: a dark suit, white shirt, black tie and black shoes. You do not need to buy any regalia before you join. Your first apron is provided at your initiation, and your mentor will tell you what you need, and when, as you progress.
Questions people often ask
Can I leave if it is not for me?
Yes, at any time, with no penalty. You are free to resign whenever you wish.
What if I cannot make every meeting?
That is fine. Work, family and other commitments come first, and members understand that.
Your first year at a glance
- Steps to initiation4
- Lodge meetings6 a year
- Meeting day1st Tuesday
- MentorFrom day one
- Obligation to joinNone
Who can join?
Men aged 18 or over, of good character, who believe in a Supreme Being in whatever way they understand it. More about who can join.
Ready for a chat?
Tell us a little about yourself and a member will be in touch to arrange an informal meeting.
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